You are fucking amazing! 

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Hey everyone,

Welcome back to crazy little things! I hope everyone is doing ok and if you are not, well that is ok too because you don’t have to be ok all the time as you are only human. So this girl is ready for her fairy godmother to visit and wave her magic wand grant me the gift of motivation. I would even take the gift of completely at least one task on my to-do list. Actually what I really need, if you are a Rick and Morty fan, is a Meeseeks box! If you are not a fan, it is a box where I can get help from a blue creature that’s main aim in life is to help me complete a task and won’t go until it is complete. It is just so frustrating that I can only seem to get motivated in life for like an hour a day if I am lucky. Even though I feel like this, I do feel a bit more emotionally stable compared to how I was a few weeks ago, That feeling of utter dread that has been plaguing my mind day and night has turned into something a bit more manageable. That is the thing with depression, in that moment of complete despair it really feels like that is it, there is no way of getting out of this hole I am just going to die here. Then when that feeling slowly starts to dissipate it goes from impossible into there is hope that you can crawl yourself out of that hole. Even a small bit of hope is enough to get you started on that journey out of that hole.

So today’s tip of the day is –

You are fucking amazing! 

I have been in that whirlwind of I am not worthy, I am not good enough, I am going to fail at anything I try to achieve. Why though?
My blog views have dramatically decreased and honestly, it has been affecting me because I do work so hard on this. No matter how much we try there are times where we do seek approval from our peers and that is mainly when we struggle to give ourselves that approval. It then can start a vicious cycle of dependency and you don’t see that you are becoming dependent on that approval or praise until it stops.
Because we don’t have that back up of self-approval to fall back on, when it stops we end up feeling even worse then we did before. We can’t depend on others to give us something we can’t give ourselves. true approval and acceptance comes from within and shouldn’t be the back up for when we don’t get approval from others. Instead, approval from others should just be seen as a bonus.
This is why self-care is so important because we need to show ourselves, fuck what everyone else thinks it is I who matters, it is I who is amazing!

Take care,
Vixxy Rose
xxx

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