Your self-worth is not measured by how popular you are!

Hey everyone,

Welcome back to crazy little things! I hope everyone is doing ok and if you’re not well that is ok too because you don’t have to be ok all the time as you are only human. Am I the only one thinking how the fuck is it only the beginning of the week? I woke up this morning to this really annoying sound; I kept squeezing my eyes shut thinking it will just go away and hoping if I squeeze my eyes hard enough sleep will find me again. How wrong I was because that annoying sound was my bloody alarm clock! I think I am beyond not a morning person I am more it’s not safe to speak to me until I have had my morning tea and accepted I am not going back to bed, kind of not a morning person. I think one morning I breathed actual fire and my head span round a couple of times. I have tried everything to try to be less grumpy in the morning and none of it works. I have tried to get more sleep, I have tried meditation in the morning and even tried eating a bar of chocolate for breakfast but nothing seems to calm the beast within. Ah well, this is who I am and at the end of the day not everyone can wake up with a spring in their step it is not a Disney movie! The world needs people like us to wear that morning scowl with pride.

See told you even when I am feeling okay I still moan a lot!

So let’s move quickly on to my tip of the day –

Your self-worth is not measured by how popular you are!

This is a hard lesson to learn during this age of social media being the key point of everyone’s life these days. Have you ever refreshed your blog page or social media page to check how many followers you have or views and likes because I know I have? It is really easy to get sucked in especially when a post gets a lot of attention, the ego goes up to and it is a great feeling to have but can also lead you down a dark path of self-loathing when the next post doesn’t do so good.
This is when you have to take a big step back and release that by giving other people the power over how you feel about yourself is not going end well.
This can also apply to everyday life, as now and then you will come across a person who you instantly clash with and just don’t gel with at all but everyone around you is telling you they are great how can you not like them. There is nothing wrong with you or them, personalities clash it happens,
Don’t allow your self-worth to be dictated by what other people think and it doesn’t always have to be negative things, like them not liking what you say, wear or even believe in. It can also be a difference of opinion or  it can be they are a morning person and you are not!

Take care,

Vixxy Rose

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